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Modern Wisdom - YouTube - What Everyone Gets Wrong About Personal Growth - Robin Sharma

发布时间:2024-05-16 15:00:25   原节目
以下是对内容的中文翻译: 著名的领导力专家罗宾·夏玛讨论了他关于真正财富的理念,这种财富超越了单纯的财务积累。他强调,财富包含着丰富的家庭生活、不计外部认可地追求自己的事业、培养内心的平静、以尊重待人以及努力让世界变得更美好。夏玛提倡用“热情投资组合”取代“投资组合”,强调关注真正能支撑和激励自己的事物的重要性。 他回顾了与一些非常成功的人合作的经历,这些人尽管取得了世俗的成功,却感到空虚和不满足。夏玛分享了亿万富翁和商业巨头们与深刻的孤独和内心不满作斗争的轶事,突出了现金充足和生活匮乏之间的差距。他引用了金·凯瑞的观察,即每个人都应该变得富有和出名,才能意识到这并不是幸福的关键。 夏玛介绍了他的“八种财富”模型,该模型重新定义了财富,超越了财务范畴。第一种也是最重要的财富形式是个人成长,强调通过冥想、写日记和治愈不安全感来不断自我提升的价值。他断言,内在成长直接影响一个人的收入、影响力和人际关系。 夏玛概述了个人发展必不可少的“四大内在帝国”:心态(心理学)、心境(情绪)、健康状况(身体)和灵魂(灵性)。他澄清说,灵魂并非宗教,而是一个人与其更高或英雄自我的关系。他强调专注于内在工作以实现真正的力量和外在成功的重要性。 夏玛警告不要成为“怨恨收集者”,强调处理和释放过去伤害的重要性,以避免影响创造力、生产力和能量。他强调了痛苦和困难在个人成长和创造性努力中的变革潜力。他强调“难的是容易的,容易的是难的”。 他介绍了“MVP”(冥想、可视化、祈祷)作为一种强大的早晨习惯,可以重新编程心态、心境、健康状况和灵魂。他还分享了五个有用的日记提示:感恩、承认胜利、确定要放弃的东西、设想理想的一天,以及反思在生命尽头需要说什么。他建议人们问自己:我感激什么?我在哪里获胜?今天我要放弃什么?我理想的一天是什么样的?当我接近死亡时,要思考的最重要的事情是什么? 他介绍了O-mad。每周应该进行一次禁食,将原本用于这些膳食的钱捐赠给需要食物的人。 夏玛提倡选择一个相容的生活伴侣,强调共同的价值观并最大限度地减少冲突。他强调“红旗就是红旗”,敦促听众注意人际关系中的警告信号。 他提倡事业的力量。强调投入到一个人事业中的努力和精力常常被他人感受到和欣赏,即使没有明确地被认可。他分享了人们在工作中超越自我的轶事,突出了慷慨和奉献精神的深刻影响。 夏玛强调慷慨的重要性,引用说慷慨是富人赚钱的方式。他对比了稀缺和富足的心态,认为慷慨会导致更大的成功和满足感。他鼓励人们提供超乎寻常的价值和质量。 夏玛介绍了霍华德·休斯的金钱陷阱。让财务财富成为你的仆人,而不是你的主人。他讨论说,许多富人花费他们的日子来保护他们的世代财富,而不是享受它。他讨论说,他的滑雪教练可能是最富有的人之一,因为他过着丰富的生活,但他并不富有金钱。 夏玛谈到了生命中最重要的是家庭和朋友的主题。他建议,如果一个人幸运,而且他们没有支持的家庭成员,那么就找到三个可以依靠的朋友,他们是一种比金钱更重要的财富形式。 他还警告不要将依恋与爱混淆,将依恋描述为源于恐惧和缺乏自爱。他强调,真正的爱是安全、稳定和支持性的。夏玛强调,你可以改变世界,或者和有毒的人在一起,你不能两者兼得。如果你正在成长,你今天的许多朋友可能不会成为你明天的朋友,因为他们会拖累你。 夏玛还建议,导师对一个人的成功至关重要。 最后,夏玛谈到了亚历山大大帝的故事。这个故事的重要教训是,世界上最好的医生也无法阻止死亡的到来,即使有最好的医生,你也无法欺骗死亡。二是你不应该花费一生积累财富,只是为了发现当你去世时,它仍然留在地球上。最后,最伟大的教训是,一个人出生时一无所有,死时也空手而去。

Robin Sharma, a renowned leadership expert, discusses his concept of true wealth, which goes beyond mere financial accumulation. He emphasizes that wealth encompasses a rich family life, pursuing one's craft regardless of external validation, cultivating inner serenity, treating others with respect, and striving to make the world a better place. Sharma champions the idea of a "portfolio of enthusiasm" over a portfolio of investments, highlighting the importance of focusing on what truly sustains and inspires one. He recounts his experiences working with highly successful individuals who, despite achieving worldly success, feel empty and unfulfilled. Sharma shares anecdotes of billionaires and tycoons grappling with profound loneliness and internal dissatisfaction, highlighting the disparity between cash-rich and life-poor existences. He cites Jim Carrey's observation that everyone should be rich and famous to realize it's not the key to happiness. Sharma introduces his "eight forms of wealth" model, which redefines wealth beyond financial terms. The first and foremost form of wealth is personal growth, emphasizing the value of continuous self-improvement through meditation, journaling, and healing insecurities. He asserts that inner growth directly impacts one's income, impact, and relationships. Sharma outlines the "four interior empires" essential for personal development: mindset (psychology), heart set (emotionality), health set (physicality), and soul set (spirituality). He clarifies that soul set is not religious but rather one's relationship with their higher or heroic self. He underscores the importance of focusing on inner work to achieve true power and outward success. Sharma cautions against becoming a "resentment collector," emphasizing the importance of processing and releasing past hurts to avoid affecting creativity, productivity, and energy. He highlights the transformative potential of pain and difficulty in personal growth and creative endeavors. He emphasizes that hard is easy and easy is hard. He introduces "MVP" (Meditation, Visualization, Prayer) as a powerful morning routine to reprogram mindset, heart set, health set, and soul set. He also shares five helpful journaling prompts: gratitude, recognition of wins, identifying what to let go of, envisioning an ideal day, and reflecting on what needs to be said at the end of life. He recommends people ask what am I grateful for. Where am I winning. What am I going to let go of today. What does my ideal day look like and what are the most important things as I approach my death to be thinking about. He introduces O-mad. That there should be a once a week fast where that money you would spend on those meals should be given to people in need of food. Sharma advocates for choosing a compatible life partner, emphasizing shared values and minimizing drama. He reinforces that "a red flag is a red flag," urging listeners to pay attention to warning signs in relationships. He advocates the power of craft. Emphasizes that the effort and energy put into one's craft are often felt and appreciated by others, even if not explicitly recognized. He shares anecdotes of people going above and beyond in their work, highlighting the profound impact of generosity and dedication. Sharma underscores the importance of generosity, citing generosity is how the wealthy make money. He contrasts scarcity and abundance mindsets, arguing that generosity leads to greater success and fulfillment. He encourages people to deliver outrageous value and quality. Sharma introduces Howard Hughes money trap. Allow financial wealth to be your servant and not your master. He discusses that many of the wealthy spend their days protecting their generational wealth instead of enjoying it. He discusses that his ski instructor might be one of the wealthiest people around, because he had a rich life and he was not rich with money. Sharma touches on the theme that the most important things in life are family and friends. He suggests, if a person is lucky, and they don't have a supportive family member to find three friends that they can rely on and they are a form of riches that are more important than money. He also cautions against confusing attachment with love, describing attachment as born of fear and a lack of self-love. He emphasizes that true love is secure, stable, and supportive. Sharma highlights that you can change the world or hang around toxic people, you can't do both. If you're on a path of growth, many of the friends you have today might not be your friends tomorrow because they are bringing you down. Sharma also recommends that a mentor is crucial to one's success. Finally, Sharma touches on the Alexander the Great story. The important lesson of the story is that the world's finest doctors cannot prevent the arrival of death, that even with the best physician you cannot cheat death. Two that you should not spend a life accumulating wealth only to find it remains on earth as you pass away. Finally, the greatest lesson is that a person is born with nothing and they die empty handed.